There is nothing spontaneous or random about the acquisition of social skills. Observation, opportunity and reinforcement are required steps leading to the internalization of age-appropriate level of social functioning.
A much more direct level of social skills instruction is essential to assist students with perceptual deficits and social anxiety. This added step is the focus of Camp Northwood’s formalized social skills training program. To enhance their social abilities and navigate the social maze, campers are presented with specific social skills during social skills training sessions.
Prior to each summer, our curriculum team identifies a series of specific social related skills that form the basis for our social skills curriculum. Weekly units are presented to each cabin group within our Northwood community. These cabin groups are made up of 5-8 campers that share a similar social potential and are poised to experience their instruction, activities and social experiences together during the course of the summer.
Each cabin group is assigned a minimum of three counselors to insure that a positive level of support and structure is maintained in order to promote social growth. Northwood counselors target and reinforce our social curriculum in consultation with our social skills team to help campers put theoretical skills to practical use.
Example of some of these specific skills addressed within Northwood’s social skills curriculum are:
- Specific scripted language used to initiate or enter into a conversation or respond to typical age-appropriate interactions
- Interpreting and use of non-verbal language cuing as part of a conversation
- The importance of personal space when interacting with peers
- Acknowledging the importance of other people’s interests
- Identifying our personal strengths as well as those of others and using them to add value to our social community
- Being a Friend 101- How to maintain friendships after they have been established
Camp Northwood recognizes that social skills cannot be taught in a vacuum. Without opportunities to practice socializing with peers in an informal setting, these skills cannot be truly developed and in time internalized; becoming a part of established routine of socialization. Following the formalized instruction of key social skills, perhaps the most important step in the process of social skills development in Northwood’s setting is what we call the “continued social dialogue”.
There is no substitute for socialization. Our campers receive constant feedback and support from our staff as they interact with the camp community throughout their day. Identifying and reinforcing successful social skills strategies while providing redirection and guidance if necessary are essential to establishing comfort with newly learned social skill strategies. The key to this aspect of social skills training rests squarely on the shoulders of staff members that play the role of primary caregivers/ instructors.
Northwood counselors recognize the priority placed on social skills development within the Camp Northwood community. Specialists in any of our 40 traditional activities are social skills instructors first and foremost whether it is on the ball fields, down at the lake or walking to a meal with their campers. After safety, there is nothing more important that social skills!
The environment and activities during which campers are practicing their social skills, using scripted social language and engaging in age appropriate non-verbal social rituals are critical. Campers must be able to practice their social skills and receive feedback while engaged in structured activities as well as during informal periods and transitional times.
Meals, dances, talent shows, free swim periods and low structured time around the cabin are all critical times for the staff to support social interaction so that campers do not opt for the much safer option of isolation and avoidance.
With Northwood’s 2:1 camper/ counselor ratio and emphasis on social skill development, campers can be supported in these more potentially socially challenging settings. It is during these low structured times that campers hone their skills and confidence creating success and a sense of belonging within the social community.
Social skills are much like artistic or athletic skills. Once learned, then refined, there must be a continual process of practice or newly found skills will deteriorate. For many children that struggle socially at home and in school, it is a challenge to find quality social opportunities that promote continued growth. Furthermore, many school districts charged with providing social structure, instruction and opportunity for their students are not prepared to do so at a level necessary to avoid stagnation or regression. Already overwhelmed with the task of finding adequate time to present state mandated curricula there just are not the resources or time.
For our Northwood campers, we encourage families to take advantage of the Northwood network and stay in touch with friends from the summer. Periodic get-togethers and supervised communication using the latest technology can provide wonderful opportunities to supplement social opportunities with peers from the neighborhood and school. Continuing the social dialogue is also a critical aspect of continued social skills development. Parents, friends and family can help to provide positive feedback, encouragement and redirection if necessary to help children identify social successes and gain confidence in using scripted social strategies. With each successful step taken by our children comes a greater likelihood that their isolated steps will develop into a path leading to achieving their social potential.